Flower Language Advice - If you can't find your soul mate(II)

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And then you do the opposite, which is to say, you say: 'What if I stay alone? It's not the right one, it's not the right one,' what's going on? And you will have two very different feelings. You will see that there, your intuition will inform you and give you a path towards what is actually your current aspiration.

When you want to take action, where do you find your soul mate?

Some will tell you no, this is not where I can meet someone in this place or that. That's a poor excuse. There is no good place. If you go into the story of each couple, you will see that it can be completely surprising, unexpected, the place where we meet. Basically, the first secret of the place of long-term romantic meeting is nonsense, that's clear.

The second secret, which is still very important, and it's what we do in adolescence, is to increase the number of people we meet. You shouldn't hesitate to meet a lot of people, go out, meet these statistics. There is not a single shoe on your feet. There are many pairs that may be suitable. So you have to get out. You shouldn't hesitate, even if there are two places that are well suited to it. It's true, the work, because we meet people and we see them act. And then also when you are introduced by friends because often, they have the sense of: 'well, they could suit him or suit him.' So, don’t hesitate to do that too.

Are lonely people lonely because they are too demanding?

It's true that when we're a couple, we often look for similarities first. So, the more you have invested in an area, whether it is an intellectual, emotional, spiritual area, the more you will look for someone who has also invested a lot in this area. So, in a way, the more choices risk becoming restricted.

However, stay open there too. Last tip, you can make a small list. You need to make your list a little bit of the qualities you are looking for in someone. And when you have made this list of required qualities, you will circle those which seem truly essential, indispensable to you. And when you have surrounded these essential, indispensable qualities, you keep in five. 

This will give you a good idea of what you're really looking for, while remaining very fluid. Again, if there are not the 5. It doesn't matter. Try your luck, you risk nothing."

Advice if you can't find your soul mate(I) - Like fast fashion

If you are single, and even more so after 30 years, you have probably asked yourself the question: will I, one day, find a soul mate? Will I finally discover the 'rare pearl'? 

These intimate questions are asked by millions of men and women around the world. But then, how can you find the right shoe for you? We try to answer it

The ambivalence of being single in the long term

You may have noticed people around you who are wonderful and yet are always alone. You sometimes have difficulty understanding why he or she cannot find the right match for them. There is sometimes an ambivalence You will have to know if, in fact, your single friend, in any case who remains alone, is not ambivalent about what he wants Because after a certain time, we realize that. some may ultimately relish the benefits of being alone Even though there are obviously also downsides to not being with someone and upsides to being with someone So this ambivalence must be what you're looking for. soul mate, and thinking that if you can't find it, it's not for you.

Make a list of your current priorities, already to know what they are. It's perhaps not at all, moreover, about finding someone, finding a soul mate, forming a couple. So when you're going to make this list, you're also going to put something important next to it.

Maybe today I actually want to devote myself to my work. Let's say that in the next three years, I will focus on this. Why not ? 

There may be a list like this which will allow us to clarify. It lets you know that ultimately, there is no desire on your part at all to be in a relationship. Maybe you'll meet your soul mate, as they say, but at the same time, you have other priorities.

Finding a partner is like "doing job interviews"

Finding a partner is a bit difficult. Sometime is like we are still in a process where we will try to find if we can do business with someone for life and for things perhaps even more serious than work. But in any case, we are still in this process, so really consider your feelings. And you can even do what's called the time travel test.

This means that you sit down and imagine yourself, for example, with a person you have met. Well, I guess you're letting yourself think about old stories a bit, aren't you? You met someone, you close your eyes and you say to yourself: 'I imagine spending my life with you.' You let yourself soak in that a little bit, and you pay attention to the feelings, to the impression it makes on you. 

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The April 23 full moon arrives in Scorpio. Surprise episode - Painful secrets are revealed!

The full moon on April 23 will deeply influence relationships of any kind, but especially love bonds, trust and stability of couples. The maximum phase of the full moon will be in the sign of Scorpio, and this water sign will have a strong influence on our emotional balance.

The full moon on April 23 will focus on feelings, the soul, relationships, emotions, intimate needs and especially repressed desires. Many natives will feel that they have gone wrong in many ways and feel the need to start over, which can be good, but they must be careful not to give up something stable for an uncertain future.

April 23 Full Moon and Horoscope All signs will be subtly influenced by the Full Moon in Scorpio which will bring hidden things, fears, anxieties and even painful secrets to the fore. Around April 23, five days before and after the maximum phase of the Full Moon, many natives will be more emotional, receptive, but also more changeable. It is possible that these days they feel overwhelmed, have situations and events in which they will lose control and let themselves be carried away. 

Some will focus on their own failures, analyze what they did wrong, try to find resources to overcome the problems they got themselves into. Others will have unpleasant couple discussions, try to blame the other, and will only exacerbate the emotional problems. Maybe love problems will come back to the fore and they won't be able to find a solution if they let themselves be fooled by appearances. They must take into account deep feelings and not fleeting emotions or passions.

  We must also keep in mind that Mercury is retrograde these days. Due to the retrograde of Mercury, which is in an unfavorable position in the Fire sign of Aries, the Full Moon on April 23 amplifies certain consequences of wrong decisions, failures, memories or regrets. There will be times or situations where many of the natives will feel the need to return to the past or someone close to them will force them to go back on some decisions that turned their lives upside down. And maybe the energy of the Full Moon will help them put an end to unpleasant situations and start something new after a period in which they will put their lives in order.

What does the influence of Scorpio mean?

It is important to remember that Scorpio energy means endings and beginnings, rebirth and regeneration. That's why the Full Moon in Scorpio can be a good time to solve delicate couple problems, put an end to unnecessary jealousies, suspicions and worries and resume the beautiful side of love relationships. 

Scorpio also signifies metamorphosis and transformation. The Full Moon in Scorpio can mean strong energetic support for many natives who need to change from the inside to benefit from big changes on the outside in their lives with those around them. Especially the Water and Earth signs (Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces) will be deeply influenced in this regard. Natives who are faced with old problems must first analyze the causes that start from within and then look for solutions. Whoever manages to change for the better, put aside negative thoughts, be more optimistic and have faith in the future, will win.

Due to the influence that Scorpio has, the days preceding or following the April 23 Full Moon will be favorable days for emotional therapies that can heal our soul and mind first and then our body. 

Full Moon in Scorpio and Health 

As I have pointed out, the sign of Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth. In a symbolic sense, in these days dominated by the Full Moon in Scorpio, something will "die" and something will be "reborn", will gain new forces and energies. 

For many natives who have long-standing health problems, the astral conjuncture around the Full Moon can be beneficial. In some cases, old pains will reactivate and a new treatment will be necessary, but it is precisely this treatment that will definitively solve the causes and forever cure nagging diseases, especially skin conditions, but also kidney diseases or gynecological diseases. In other situations, hospitalization or surgery may be necessary. 

Some patients have to make quick and difficult decisions, but they will have by their side medical specialists well-trained enough to get through any ordeal. In particular, some natives of Water signs, namely Cancers, Scorpios and Pisces, may have more painful problems. Challenging days will come for them, but they will find resources and support to make the best treatments and get rid of their health problems for good.

LUNOLOGY PROM: what is the role of each of the eight phases of the Moon? (II)

The 8 phases of the Moon: understand and get started

1. Lunology: what to do during the New Moon?

"This is undoubtedly the most exciting part of the lunar cycle. This phase begins one to three and a half days after the balsamic moon. During this period, which must be anticipated and planned, sow the seeds of your future dreams. The New Moon can feel like a quiet time, when things are getting ready, when in fact you are starting to materialize (or not) your dreams. The key words for this phase are: clean slate,. potential and dreams."

2. Lunology: what to do during the first crescent?

"Now is the time to let your dreams blossom. If that doesn't sound too poetic, think of yourself and your dreams as a flower opening. Remember that the Moon is passing from invisibility at maximum power, and the same goes for your dreams This phase begins three and a half to seven days after the New Moon. Keywords of this phase are: courage, moving forward and faith."

3. Lunology: what to do during the first quarter moon?

"Now is when the Moon looks like a “half moon” transitioning from new to full. At this point in the cycle, you may begin to have some doubts about your ability to materialize your dreams. This phase begins seven to ten and a half days after the New Moon. This is the perfect time to get involved! So, the key words for this phase are: challenges, confidence and commitment.

4. Lunology: what to do during the waxing gibbous moon?

"As the Moon approaches fullness, the time has come to show vigor. Don't give up. Don't let your ego or fear ruin your plans. Stay open to what life teaches you. If you know how to make changes to achieve your goals, do them now This phase begins ten and a half to fifteen days after the New Moon. Your mission? Rectify."

5. Lunology: what to do during the Full Moon?

"The Full Moon is the big time in the lunar cycle. Things are coming to a head now, and we know it instinctively. If one of your wishes is going to come true, it just might come true at this point of the cycle. Or perhaps you will simply receive a strong sign that it is on its way. Some wishes take time. This phase begins 15 to 18 and a half days after the New Moon. are: results, forgiveness and gratitude."

6. Lunalogy: what to do during the lunar phase of dissemination?

"After all the intensity of the Full Moon, it can be tempting to collapse. If things haven't worked out for you then, what to do next? A lot of energy has been expended and you may want to relax a little during this part of the cycle If this is the case for you, do it You will find that the more you work in harmony with the lunar phases, the more abundant life will be. This phase begins from days three and a half to seven. days after the Full Moon The key words are: cycle, relax, accept, pull yourself together!

7. Lunology: what to do during the third quarter of the Moon?

"This lunar phase can be difficult. It's the midpoint between the wonder of the Full Moon and the potential of the New Moon. Somehow we know that what hasn't worked for us in the past is dissolved on the etheric plane. It is time to reorient ourselves. This phase begins seven to ten and a half days after the Full Moon. This is the time to question yourself on what you know. are: reevaluate, balance and trust."

8. Lunology: what to do during the Balsamic Moon?

"The word "balsamic" comes from the word "balm", which means "anything that heals or relieves". And this is the meaning of this "last part" of the lunar cycle (before the Full Moon). We have passed from hopes and dreams to explosions of potential: to realize what can or cannot exist, to accept, to forgive and to abandon ourselves... and now comes healing and relief. This phase begins about ten days and. half after the Full Moon, and continues until the start of the New Moon. Obviously, the key words of this phase are: healing, relief and abandonment.

LUNOLOGY: what is the role of each of the eight phases of the Moon? (I)

Full moon, New Moon, crescents and quarters. In Lunology, astrologer Yasmin Boland reveals her method for working with the energies of the Moon. A simple way to make your dreams come true.

It's no secret that the Moon has many powers. The star which gives its name to Monday crosses the zodiac in 28 days. These 28 days correspond to the lunation cycle. The latter also has an influence on our daily lives. Emotions, sleep, menstrual cycle... It is not for nothing that witches perform rituals every month to (re)connect with the Moon. In her book, Lunology, Yasmin Boland focuses on the eight phases of the Moon and its effects. With this guide, the astrologer gives us the keys to transforming our lives and making our dreams come true. Explanations.

Full Moon, New Moon, crescent… How to explain the eight phases of the Moon?

Yasmin Boland explains: "Even though the Moon appears to change its appearance in the sky as it passes through these phases, what actually changes is its position relative to the Sun and Earth." “This is why sometimes we see the entire face of the Moon light up (the Full Moon) and at other times the Moon looks like a “half moon” (the quarter Moon).” And it is also for this reason that in astrology, we say that the Moon has two faces. From there follows your moon sign and your Lilith, also called Black Moon. During the lunation cycle, we distinguish eight lunar phases, eight faces of the Moon.

• Full Moon, when the entire moon appears in the sky
• The first district
• The first croissant
• The waxing gibbous Moon
• The New Moon, time when the moon seems to disappear and is not visible in the sky.
• The Balsamic Moon
• The third district
• Dissemination

OBS. The waxing Moon goes from New Moon to Full Moon and grows larger in the sky, while the waning Moon returns from full to new, and gets smaller each day.

Understanding the phases of the Moon to make your dreams come true

To theorize lunology, Yasmin Boland explains: “For hundreds of years, tradition and folklore have declared that each lunar phase is “good” for carrying out certain activities.” The astrologer's observation is simple: "I have developed my own version of the use of the energies of each lunar phase, that is to say by determining what we must do or not do in each of them , especially when it comes to making our dreams come true.” A short guide to learning to live and work with the influence of the magical star that is the Moon. Before discovering Yasmin Boland's tips, know that to know the position of the Moon in real time, you must refer to a lunar calendar.

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What is the Gibbous Moon? Let's discover its influence (II)

Lunar cycle: how to know if the moon is in ascending (waxing) or descending (waning) phase?

There is a very simple method to know if the Moon is waxing or waning. Whether it is increasing or decreasing. Just look at the crescent shape of the Moon. Thus, if the shadow zone of the star forms a C, it is because we are in a waxing Moon phase. Conversely, during the waning gibbous Moon period, the star gives the impression of forming a d in the sky.

The effects of the waxing gibbous Moon position

The waxing period of the Gibbous Moon is a time of expansion. This is the moment when we begin to feel the agitation that is brewing with the arrival of the Full Moon. The moment when you feel your confidence growing and the ideas starting to flow. If it is customary to say that at the Full Moon, all our wishes come true, during the waxing gibbous Moon, some may feel the need to make some adjustments in order to arrive armed for the Full Moon. This is the energy of this phase, the overflow of life. Towards fullness. It’s quite simple, the waxing gibbous Moon gives us new impetus. It’s a perfect time to grow our investments and financial investments, our vegetable gardens or expand the family. Generally, under its influence, everyone feels a little stronger. The emotions then also become more and more intense. 

To work best with the energies of this phase, it is then advisable to take some kind of review of your projects. The opportunity to ask yourself if you are on the right track. Know which plans need to be revised. You have to keep an open mind, be ready to bounce back, to review projects, to correct your trajectory. As emotions gain momentum, you have to refocus on yourself. In a list of “don’ts”, you should detail something like: “I take care of my emotions and my anger. I try not to be too impatient. I am not afraid to welcome my Yang, masculine energy.” In short, during the period of the waxing gibbous Moon, it is better not to be too rigid!

What is a waning gibbous Moon and what are its effects?

After the Full Moon and its many twists and turns, the waning gibbous Moon presents itself as a decompression airlock. “The Moon is calming down and so are we.” It’s a time to breathe and take a little break. “We withdraw more and more into ourselves, into our inner world, into our darkness, like the beautiful Moon. Then begins a phase of introspection and integration of the first fortnight of the lunation.” It is the beginning of the period of shadow and calm of the lunation. Entry into what the author calls “the passive phase” of the lunation. The more time passes, the more the Full Moon moves away to give way to the arrival of the New Moon. There is then no point in forcing things or trying to act, or react, on impulse. The Gibbous Moon is here to remind us that it is sometimes good to sit down and think a little. “Don’t force things now, think, come back down, take a breath, because soon the last crescent will arrive, that of the balance sheet.”

It is a time when it is not recommended to initiate anything, or to throw ourselves headlong into new projects. In fact, it’s time to lay down your arms and retreat. Between letting go and the need for introspection, the waning gibbous Moon allows us to recover a little strength. We invite everyone to refocus on  needs and desires. We then slowly begin the period of questioning, “without giving in to doubt”, in order to be able to draw up a list of our desires during the New Moon which will arrive around ten days later.

What is the Gibbous Moon? Let's discover its influence (I)

In few words, Gibbous Moon is a phase of the lunar cycle that is still little known and yet allows you to refocus on yourself and your desires. For this reason we will try to explain step by step

The cycle of the Moon, which extends on average over 27 days, is fascinating. From its way of governing our emotions to its ability to give rhythm to our daily lives, and even menstrual cycles: we give it many powers. Studied since the dawn of time, the night star has multiple faces. This is why she is linked to the Triple Goddess - Selene, Hecate and Artemis. Have you ever noticed that the Moon changes shape over time? Sometimes increasing, it becomes full to illuminate the sky, then decreases little by little until it gives the impression of disappearing on New Moon evenings. If you are more interested in its influence, perhaps you know the effects of the Full Moon and those of the New Moon. Two very distinct periods. Two unmissable events. However, the lunation is not only made up of these two phases, it has eight of them, each having a particular effect. Focus on one of the phases that is still little known: the gibbous Moon.

What is the Gibbous Moon? Definition

The Gibbous Moon corresponds to an intermediate phase in the lunation. There are two types: increasing and decreasing. Each of them frames the Full Moon. It's a kind of transition. Two moments to warn us that we are reaching the halfway point of the cycle, two moments that invite us to adapt. One after another, the term gibbeuse designates that which is plump, like the belly of a pregnant woman, like a roll of pleasure which overflows from the pants, or a well-stocked cornucopia.

The waxing gibbous Moon is the phase just before the Full Moon. It occurs between the tenth and fourteenth day of the cycle. When the Moon begins to gain momentum, to shine more and more. During this period, the energies sent to us by the Moon become a little more powerful each day. It’s very simple, the more the circle that is drawn in the sky fills, the more the powers of the Moon increase tenfold. This is the moment when we are almost there, like the moon itself almost round, but not yet completely. Boldness, impatience, and therefore the adaptation skills necessary to mobilize to finally get there. If there are adjustments to be made to carry out the project, the wish, the dream, it’s now.

Conversely, the waning gibbous Moon is the phase that arrives just after the Full Moon. It therefore generally corresponds to the twentieth day of the lunation. This is when the power of the Moon begins to wane. It is the beginning of the waning phase of the Moon, the one which marks the entry into the transition to the New Moon. After the intensity of the Full Moon, a moment when energies are increased tenfold, the gibbous Moon allows us to regain our senses.

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