Flower Language Advice - If you can't find your soul mate(II)

Soulmate Butterfly Flower

And then you do the opposite, which is to say, you say: 'What if I stay alone? It's not the right one, it's not the right one,' what's going on? And you will have two very different feelings. You will see that there, your intuition will inform you and give you a path towards what is actually your current aspiration.

When you want to take action, where do you find your soul mate?

Some will tell you no, this is not where I can meet someone in this place or that. That's a poor excuse. There is no good place. If you go into the story of each couple, you will see that it can be completely surprising, unexpected, the place where we meet. Basically, the first secret of the place of long-term romantic meeting is nonsense, that's clear.

The second secret, which is still very important, and it's what we do in adolescence, is to increase the number of people we meet. You shouldn't hesitate to meet a lot of people, go out, meet these statistics. There is not a single shoe on your feet. There are many pairs that may be suitable. So you have to get out. You shouldn't hesitate, even if there are two places that are well suited to it. It's true, the work, because we meet people and we see them act. And then also when you are introduced by friends because often, they have the sense of: 'well, they could suit him or suit him.' So, don’t hesitate to do that too.

Are lonely people lonely because they are too demanding?

It's true that when we're a couple, we often look for similarities first. So, the more you have invested in an area, whether it is an intellectual, emotional, spiritual area, the more you will look for someone who has also invested a lot in this area. So, in a way, the more choices risk becoming restricted.

However, stay open there too. Last tip, you can make a small list. You need to make your list a little bit of the qualities you are looking for in someone. And when you have made this list of required qualities, you will circle those which seem truly essential, indispensable to you. And when you have surrounded these essential, indispensable qualities, you keep in five. 

This will give you a good idea of what you're really looking for, while remaining very fluid. Again, if there are not the 5. It doesn't matter. Try your luck, you risk nothing."